It’s an exciting time when you find out you are expecting. A much longed for mini human to join your family. However, if you already have a furry friend in your family, then it is important to prepare them as it can be a very confusing time for them.
Many people believe that animals can sense when we are expecting. Certainly they must notice when we walk a little differently, and perhaps they don’t fit on your lap as well as they once did! They will also notice a change to their routine once baby has arrived.
I have put together some information gleaned from personal experience, plus references from trusted sources to write this blog article. The best bit is that you don’t need to wait until baby has arrived to start the preparation process. It can start from as soon as you find out you’re expecting.
Refresh training and boundaries
You may not have worried too much about your pet’s habit of jumping up at strangers or the worktop before, but it may become a nuisance once you are 8 months pregnant or carrying your new baby! Training can help iron this out for when baby arrives.
Why not try taking your dog for a walk whilst you take out your pushchair for a trial run? This way they can start to get used to politely walking alongside a buggy without pulling. Or you could take them out with a bicycle if you don’t want to take your pram out before baby arrives.
I used to love taking my dog out with my second baby in her buggy. Walking up to my local woods meant I got quite fit! The fresh air was good for both of us and of course the exercise to aid healing and mental wellbeing. Plus of course giving my dog his usual walk.
I’m sure your dog is already well used to cuddles from you, but babies and children act differently to us. Their movements are often erratic, they make loud noises and they tend to grab and stick things in their mouths! It’s important to make sure they are in good health themselves and can be touched anywhere without pain, which could lead them to react negatively. Take note of any sensitive areas your pet may have when touched, and be mindful when baby is mobile.
Check for any sensitivity to touch
I’m sure your dog is already well used to cuddles from you, but babies and children act differently to us. Their movements are often erratic, they make loud noises and they tend to grab and stick things in their mouths! It’s important to make sure your pet is in good health and can be touched anywhere without pain, which could lead them to react negatively. Take note of any sensitive areas your pet may have when touched, and be mindful when baby is mobile. Make sure your dog has seen a vet and had a health check, plus of course is up to date on jabs, flea and wormer.
Boundaries
Could you take your dog’s bowl or any food away from them without them reacting? A lot of accidents occur from babies snatching doggie’s treats when they are eating them. Make sure your dog has a private space for eating well away from baby.
It’s also very important to make sure boundaries are set around your animals sleeping area. Beds should be kept away from baby so that they have a safe space to retreat to once they’ve had enough of baby’s attention!
Prepare for the birth
Who is going to look after your dog whilst you’re giving birth? If you go into hospital to have your baby then your dog may be left alone. Prepare a friend, family member or dog sitter to come and look after them when you go into labour. Your dog will ideally be used to this person and relaxed around them.
Getting used to baby's smell
If time permits before coming home, it would be a great idea to let your dog have a sniff of baby’s first sleep suit or blanket, before they meet in person.
When you come home, say hello the dog without baby at first. They will probably be very excited to see you!
Once settled, and preferably doggo is tired after a walk, then get together in a quiet room (with open door) with you holding baby and let the dog approach in their own time.
Reward vocally and with treats for good behaviour. Your dog will have a sniff, but this shouldn’t last too long before they loose interest. Praise your dog and let them go about their day and leave the room.
This should be a very positive first introduction and should mean that your dog accepts baby as a new family addition readily and easily.
